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BECAUSE Brings Bisexuals Together
Surround me with a few hundred bisexuals for a whole weekend, and I relax like I haven’t in a long time, feeling empowered and supported. Even after all these years as an out bisexual, being with so many bi comrades who understand our unique challenges and care about our community is still a rare experience. [...]
Bisexuals & Domestic Violence
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and the contentious Houses of Congress with their warring factions have added a darker level of meaning to domestic violence this year. The government shutdown and debt ceiling standoff, instigated by the Tea Party-ruled GOP, means that 80% of government-funded shelters will likely receive less support. The only Washington [...]
Bisexuals were visible and vocal at invitation-only White House meeting
If you knew bisexuals experience rape, partner violence, and stalking more than any other segment of our sexual orientations, would you keep silent? If you were offered a national platform to give voice to their stories, could these sad statistics be revealed without perpetuating the many hateful stereotypes about bisexuals? I asked myself these questions [...]